I don't know of any other lolitas in the South Island of NZ unfortunately, and if there is any I would definitely be interested in meeting them. Though, sadly, the chances are slim. I hope that one day I can go to Wellington (where the lolita community is) for a meet up some day. I imagine that lolita meet ups are so lovely and it saddens me to hear that some lolitas don't go to meet ups because they simply can't be bothered. I have no one to spend time with in real life that shares my love for lolita and I am so jealous of everybody who does. If you are part of a lolita community, please be so thankful for what you have! You are so lucky so make the most of it. Care to share? Have you been to a lolita meet up? How was it?